tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post7215399778135012675..comments2023-10-21T09:58:07.140-04:00Comments on Joyfull Living: Marriage Monday - MiscarriagesJoyfullhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09661193900261452475noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-66765987328002469782011-10-21T06:43:57.975-04:002011-10-21T06:43:57.975-04:00I agree with e-mom you have beautifully measured w...I agree with e-mom you have beautifully measured words and such insight and grace that I am sure you are used of the Lord in this area - and if not now you will be. Our losses are never for no good reason.<br /><br />I had wanted to post a link to Marriage mondays to speak of my own infertility but the birth of 6 puppies in our home has prevented me - oh well maybe another time.<br /><br />I have really enjoyed your post.<br /><br />ShelleyShelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10500942114920378149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-74746853412120746172011-10-18T00:39:29.817-04:002011-10-18T00:39:29.817-04:00It's true that we grieve in different ways. Wh...It's true that we grieve in different ways. When I got a miscarriage, I had never expected that my husband would grieve more than I did. But after my miscarriage, we were given another bundle of joy and my husband was never happier than with the coming of this baby. So you're right, let's continue to marvel on God's grace and faithfulness over us.nice Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08591329638743652319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-79161225306072059082011-10-18T00:37:21.665-04:002011-10-18T00:37:21.665-04:00Joyfull, this post is so wise. You are such a meas...Joyfull, this post is so wise. You are such a measured and careful "speaker," and I know many are blessed by your words.<br /><br />Understanding the differences between male and females' emotional make-up is critical to achieving harmony in a marriage--especially during times of grief, like a miscarriage. <br /><br />This line is key: <i>Women may simply want to talk about their loss and pain, but this often challenges men, since they are uncomfortable opening up to such pain without an avenue of action. By understanding these differences, the healing process can go smoother.</i> <br /><br />Often we wives must teach our husbands these truths. That can be challenging, but it's well worth the effort. <br /><br />I hope you have a circle of younger women you are imparting your wisdom to IRL. Your Titus 2 calling is abundantly evident!<br /><br />Thanks for linking this post at Chrysalis today. <br /><br />Warm hugs, e-Mom ღSusannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12090290482455881323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-33454852598176402922011-10-17T22:35:02.538-04:002011-10-17T22:35:02.538-04:00My husband and I are still waiting on the Lord anx...My husband and I are still waiting on the Lord anxiously for our children--after 5 years trying and a baby girl in Heaven. It's incredibly difficult at times, but God is The One who sustains us! My husband and I lean on each other for support, and have grown even closer through these times! After all these years, we grieve for our baby Bailey Faith and also rejoice for a "part of us" is in our Father's arms!!! :) <br /><br />LeslieLesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04977366023909553381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-32335192035128720572011-10-17T17:15:37.449-04:002011-10-17T17:15:37.449-04:00I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. But, as ...I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. But, as I remind myself, the children we lose on earth go straight to the feet of Jesus, we have created eternal worshippers. However, I still cry...<br /><br />When we lost a child to miscarriage I remember telling my husband I didn't expect him to cry like I did, but he also shouldn't expect me to not cry. Because of great insight from others, like you shared above, we were able to have this dialogue early on and were able to heal together in our own way.<br /><br />mommamindy.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-513033136995632682011-10-17T10:49:45.932-04:002011-10-17T10:49:45.932-04:00yes and amen...thanks for sharing...and so true we...yes and amen...thanks for sharing...and so true we each grieve differently<br /><br />Well I am entering that new season while still running after a five year old...God has a since of humor. Thanks for stopping by my post.<br /><br />Great encouraging post.Janettessage.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262598732466380229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1443648400637194742.post-33064724307952318712011-10-17T10:47:21.360-04:002011-10-17T10:47:21.360-04:00Thanks for sharing! It is so true that we grieve i...Thanks for sharing! It is so true that we grieve in different ways! I wrote about my process just this past Friday! http://evattsbeautifulmess.blogspot.com/2011/10/unseen-but-never-forgotten.html<br /><br />Thanks for sharing this! Be blessed!Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16992559518833087855noreply@blogger.com