One of the biggest surprises since we began homeschooling has been how much I have learned!  I love reading history lessons now that I am older and want to understand the 'whys' and 'how's' instead of a bunch of facts, dates and names!  Another important lesson is that I can't effectively teach if I don't have good understanding myself.  Often I must review the lesson to refresh myself before I teach it to my son.       While raising our children, sometimes the day to day duties and needs to be met would be about all that I could handle.  As our two older boys  have grown and are now on the threshold of being on their own, I find myself wishing I had done a few things differently.  Maybe some more time training them, being deliberate in teaching and preparing them, things I should have said, or have not said, it could go on and on!!       A recent article I read shared some descriptions about children.       1 You have a child...