As a wife, we want to make our husbands proud of us. But, as we have learned -Superwoman is a myth. It takes effort and time to mature into a godly woman...and a lot of prayer! Here is a prayer from the Stormie O'Martian prayer calendar which I loved. It is everything I want to be and this is the only place to get it...in prayer.
"Lord, teach me how to take care of myself and stay attractive to my husband. Grow me into a creative and confident woman who is rich in mind, soul and spirit. Make me the kind of woman he can be proud to say is his wife."