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Words Matter - Let Them Bring Life

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Words are powerful tools in our hands (or mouth!). Depending on our aim, we can make them arrows that can build up or tear down. They can impart wisdom or bring shame. They can deliver encouragement or deflate the spirit. Words can be a weapon or a healing balm. A welcome sound or a dreaded racket. 

It is easy to remember words spoken by others into our lives. Some build us up and when we remember them, give us a warm feeling deep down in our hearts! They inspire us to become what those words spoke to us. Maybe we heard words that cut deep.  They too echo in our minds with a taunting cry and reminder of failure or mistakes. The voices we choose to listen to affect us greatly. We long to choose to remember the good words.  The Bible tells us that 'death and life are in the power of the tongue." 

We cannot do anything about harmful words in the past, but we can begin today to choose to give words of life to those around us. Because words often seem to fly out of our mouths quickly, choosing uplifting words requires deliberate and intentional action. Thinking and choosing gracious words for appropriate times while listening for the quiet warning when words are not appropriate is a delicate balance that will take much refining.  I read a verse this week that I need sealed in my heart.."He who has knowledge spares his words, And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit."  Proverbs 17:27. Words matter and it is never too late to purpose to choose words that bless.

So here is a challenge. Will you carve out some time today to use your words to encourage — to intentionally bless others? Someone is waiting to hear how thankful you are for them. It might just make their day. 

Love Prompts
Got a minute? Grab a pen! Use any of these prompts to get you started on jotting a note, an email, or a text to a loved one in your life. For some, the statement stands alone. For others, elaborate on the thought that is given. Your words are sure to bless your recipient!

Five Powerful Phrases to Speak to Your Spouse

I trust your judgment.
I’m glad I married you.
Here is what I appreciate most about you...
I am with you.
Being your wife has taught me...

 Five Powerful Phrases to Speak to Your Child

You can do it.
A happy memory I have of when you were younger is...
I am confident you can make good choices.
Being your mom has taught me...
God has an amazing life planned for you.

 Five Powerful Phrases to Speak to Your Parent

I’m not sure if I’ve ever told you before, but thank you for...
A wonderful memory I have of my childhood is...
I admire your strength.
How can I help you?
I am proud of you for...

Five Powerful Phrases to Speak to Your Friend

My favorite thing about our friendship is...
The best time I ever had with you was when...
I am with you all the way.
The character quality I most admire in you is...
You remind me of Jesus when you...

Often the hardest part of trying something new is the beginning.  These prompts make it easier to get started in a life giving habit of speaking life!
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