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Just Show Up!

 I could be called an avid walker. Walking to me is more than exercise, it is life! It is joining my heart with nature, moving my body, seeing the glory of God's creation all around me, clearing my mind and reducing stress. Mornings are my favorite time of the day to walk, besides the freshness and newness of the day, it is the window of free time before work and daily tasks. 

My walking route and time are consistent each day and so is my neighbor "D". She rides her bicycle each morning faithfully. We pass each other on the road most mornings, regardless of weather, we see one another and know that faithfulness and love of our activity is what drives us. 



'D' and I occasionally take time to stop and chat, but usually it's a smile and 'hello'. As she passes by she always says 'you have a blessed day, baby'. And I smile every time!  Last year, our family took a long vacation. I told "D" we would be gone so she wouldn't worry about not seeing me. The first day back to my walking routine, she rode up behind me and told me as she saw me walking ahead  "my back never looked so good'! She missed me!

"D" doesn't do anything special, she simply shows up every morning with a smile and kind word. She is in the midst of doing what she loves, but incorporates love and joy while doing it. What a lesson we can dig out of that....just show up.

Although our schedules and days look different, we each have a sphere of influence around us. It begins in our home with our families and may extend to our jobs, churches or community. How do we show up each day those around us? 

A smile and a greeting given every day sets a good tone. But consistency makes a difference. When those around us know we can be depended upon to do what we say, or to have their best interests at heart, trust is built. When we stay the course to be kind, considerate even through challenges, speaking words filled with truth but seasoned with grace, respect is earned. Relationships matter and are true gifts when handled with care. 

It may sound like a lot of effort to invest in others and it does take sacrifice and nurturing. But if we begin small, by just showing up day after day, beautiful foundations can be built. Start today with a smile and kind word and build it into a reflection of grace! 



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