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Don't Walk So Fast!

 This week, on my day off from work, the weather was picture perfect! Spring is in the air and as I did my errands, I made a stop at the Lowe's garden shop. They had beautiful flowers in abundance, so much time was spent soaking in all the beauty and deciding which ones were going home with me. 

While checking out at the cash register with my cart full of flower buddies, a lady came behind me looking for a shopping cart. There was not one close by, so she decided to follow me out to my car and take my cart. (sounds kinda creepy, but that is just how fellow gardeners roll)!  As I checked out and walked with her in the parking lot, my mind was on the next stop and getting home to spend time planting the flowers. After a short distance, she exclaimed "Boy, those short legs move really fast!". I naturally walk fast and with my mind racing ahead to the next thing on the agenda, I didn't pay attention to her trying to keep up. 

After her comment, I slowed down and tried to engage with her. She waited as I unloaded the cart and then took it back to the store to fill it with her garden buys. A quick lesson came to mind as I left. The current season of life I an in, is much slower than previous ones. There is no pressing place to be, no time limit, no reason to be in such a rush, other than the focus of self. 

Redeeming the time, is a phrase in the Bible to make the most of each moment. It takes an extra measure of diligence and attention when the focus in on my own agenda. For years, I've told myself to slow down, pay attention to what's going on around me and be alert for ways to brighten the day of others. 

Everyone around us has a need to be seen, noticed and valued. Opportunities are often missed when we are distracted. But, if we are alert, we can use our eyes, smiles and words to bring a blessing to others. It doesn't have to take much effort, but it does take a heart open to receiving and giving out God's love. 

I made it home that day, planted my flowers and enjoy sitting on the porch and enjoying their beauty. They are a true gift that will keep on giving. The same thing happens when we notice others and plant seeds of love and kindness in their lives, The beauty shines through and lightens hearts for days to come. 





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